Lady Black (Stufe 3) mail warning

The history of a Lady or “Are we a match?”

If you are reading this, my name probably tempted you to think I could dominate you and now you are checking if we are match. Or I just joined your match and you are checking whether I am worth your time. Well I can’t give either of you an answer to that but I can tell you a bit of my state of mind to make a judgement call.

I am here to explore my dominant side, and while the public roleplays I’ve seen look hot and fun it’s only the interactive game modes for me at the moment. I just prefer to give actual commands and tasks to follow to tease the little subs on here instead of giving long descriptions how I would touch your center of lust. So if you are looking for a detailed story about what is going on we are not a good match at least. If I feel it matches the flow of what we are doing I may sprinkle some light RP in, but do not count on that being always the case (neither in every message, nor in a play at all)

Having said that, I want to clarify that this doesn’t mean I don’t want to talk to you. There is no good play without communication and banter and I expect you to talk to me too. Not only what you are doing, but how you feel about it. And again: Some nice Banter ;)

Having my focus on IRL actions there is not really a point in playing with me if you are cross-gendering with your character. But if you tell me I shall treat you as member of the opposite sex (apart from the actions) at the beginning I try my best to do that.

A portrait of a Lady or “Who are you?”

I am just me ;)
( Living in our modern times i feel the need to explain, that my name stems from the anime character "Black Lady" visible in the picture. It's easy to find why thats her name. Just thought the other way around would be more fitting for here )

WhiIe i do have a preference IRL, I do enjoy online play with any gender. Getting your hard cock to twitch on its own is equally fun to getting a pussy to wet the surface you are sitting on - so that includes transgender obviously.

The confessions of a Lady or “What are your kinks?”

I have ticked at least most of the options in my profile, just to have ability to choose from the matching actions during play. But my own kinks are in fact:

1) Tease&Denial / Orgasm Control/ Edging / JOI (Did you guess that? isn’t earning you any points though ;p xD)
2) CBT & Pain
3) Bondage
4) Humilation & Degradion (Don’t expect this to be very/too strong. Any sub is still a human being and I will treat you as such, even if I am mean at the moment)

Other kinks may come up either as an experiment what I can do with them, or because the sub is into it. Note that if I personally don’t like it that much, it may not be as detailed or much as you would hope for.

Things you will never see me do: Blood, Ass to mouth, Penis Insertion, Drugs, a lot of stuff I don’t think of right now…

The diary of a Lady or "My thoughts on the D & S"

1) Safety is predominant at every moment. If you can not cope anymore with a predicament I have put you through just stop. Stop right now. Then tell me. (or even better tell me before it starts to get too uncomfortable)

2) Always be honest with me. Tell me if I anything is going too far for you or you can't do something for some reason the way I asked for. I much prefer your honesty over pretending having done something. I will see if we can modify it in a way we are both happy with or skip it altogether. ( That doesn't necessarily mean i won't punish you for it of course ;) )

3) I may be the dominant in our little play, but it is about both of us. Regardless of how mean I may or may not seem to be at any giving moment, my ultimate goal is always that we both get enjoyment out of what we are doing. From a practical standpoint that means i will try to include kinks that I don't like personally myself. At least to a certain extend I feel comfortable with. Likewise I hope you will do/try some tasks for me you maybe don’t like that much if they come up - assuming it’s not in your limits of course and just something you don’t like that much. Let me remind you again: communication is key! I won’t make you edge over and over if that is not your thing.

4) I like the idea of stretching one of the subs limits. In fact I think it’s one of the hottest things we can achieve together is pushing one of your boundaries just a little bit further than they were before. But ultimately it’s always the sub making that decision and you will (if it wasn’t an accident) usually get an in-play way not to do it. It may cost you your orgasm however ;) In any case that is something that needs a good lead up, and works best if there is a good chemistry already. That makes it at least unlikely I will try something the first time(s) we play.

Cuddling with a Lady or "What about aftercare?"

Obviously I won’t cuddle with you, because that’s just not possible with the large amount of space that’s most likely between us. However I will usually be sticking around for a few minutes after our play. (Unless there is a specific reason, life can happen, and if thats the case I am deeply deeply sorry).

You can talk to me to clear your head if needed, give me feedback if you want, or we just chat a bit to calm down.

We can also skip it altogether if you don’t need it, but please tell me so. Us dominants have feelings too, and it feels weird when someone just leaves after sharing a few intimate moments, even if it was only through a computer screen.