Ratoncito (Stufe 4) mail warning

Hello!

I am a middle aged, European male. I am on EF to explore aspects of my personality and sexuality that I cannot explore in real life. I speak English and German fluently. This character represents, as far as I choose to go with this, my "real" self, not a role playing personality. And no, the image is of course not me.

I am looking for ILR / Interactive modes of play only. While in real life I am mostly straight, maybe a little bi-curious, I am open for having games with people of any gender or identity.

I am mainly interested in the Dominance/Submission aspect of BDSM. As a way of transporting this sweet dynamic of power exchange, I enjoy medium pain (like spanking, clamps, CBT) and humiliation (obeying commands, doing tasks). Currently I especially want to explore my submissive side. But I dom, too, if the opportunity presents itself.

I am neutral or ambiguous towards anal, heavy verbal degradation, edging and bondage. Meaning, I would not enjoy if these made up the main content of a session, but they could well be part of the experience, in milder forms.

My hard limits are dangerous stuff (like injuries/blood, scat, breath control, long term bondage), sissy/feminisation, markings and modifications.

My toys are nearly exclusively re-purposed household items, but I believe I am quite creative with this. Should you find anything missing please let me know, and I'll see what I can do ;)
* belts, narrow paddle (or broad crop), cane
* 2 pairs of improvised nipple clamps (medium, hard) with a chain to connect them and different weights (3x 75g, 1x 120g, 1x180g)
* improvised (but safe) dildos both for up top and down below
* the usual household stuff: String/Shoelace, clothespins, toothpaste, brushes, icecubes, a small bucket...

Responsible (meaning safe, sane and consensual) play is important to me, as is a certain degree of general manners and reliability.

If you are interested in playing, or just having a chat, please DM me.

I am regularly switching this character's kink and toy settings around, so please do not believe what it says about that below.