Ratoncita (Niveau 4) mail warning

I AM CURRENTLY ON AN EXTENDED HIATUS, SO I WILL VERY LIKELY NOT ANSER YOUR DM ANYTIME SOON.

Quick summary: Cross-Gender. Looking for IRL play only. Play Safe, Sane and Consensual. Dominant, into D/S, Humiliation, Pain. If you want to play with me, better read the whole thing first!

Disclaimer, Safety, Consensus

Not very sexy, I know, but important.

1. Know that this is a cross-gender char. This means in real life I am anatomically male and identify as such, too. If that bothers you in any way, feel free to not play with me. I am fine to play with all kinds of genders.
2. Age, Consent: I only play with partners who are of legal age in their country, who participate on their own free will and who are not drugged or drunk. Should I ever get the impression that one of these conditions is not met, I will quit the game, report and block you.
3. Safeword: This ist your (and my) emergency exit, writing it in the game chat will end the session immediately and for good. However I will always try to stick around for a discussion about what went wrong, and to provide help, if at all possible. If the game quits, feel free to DM me. Obviously the Safeword must be used responsibly. I will always react to the safeword "Safeword" (very creative, I know), but feel free to pick you own.
4. Safety / Slowword: Always remember your safety comes first. I cannot know you, your surroundings, your toys or your limits. So if I ask something of you that you think might injure you or cause other unwanted harm, do not do it. Or let me know by choosing a slowword. In contrast to a safeword, a slowword will not immediately end the session, just stop it, so we can (out of context of the session) quickly check what went wrong and if and how we want to continue. Again, this is not meant as a play tool, do not abuse it. I will always react to the slowword "Slowword", but please let me know yours if you want.
5. Some more words about safety: a) Be sure to stay warm enough, do not risk hypothermia by something like being naked in a cold or drafty room. A light wool or fleece jacket (able to open at the front) is a good way to keep your body temperature if you feel that this is required. I will not consider it part of the game or its rules and commands. b) Stay hydrated. Drink at least half a jar of water before the session starts and keep drinkable water nearby, and make use of it. Again, this is not part of the game and always allowed. c) Use your toys responsibly. I expect you to have some experience with any toys you bring. Examples: Do NOT choke yourself with a new collar or give yourself a laceration with this new cane you never used. Try new toys out on your own, slowly and carefully. And of course do not use anything dangerous, like putting something that can break (like squishy vegetables) or something sharp or pointy in any body orifice.
6. Taking or sending "proof" pictures/videos is ALWAYS optional. Feel free to ignore any references I might make to this, if you are not completely comfortable. If you do it, do it safely: DM here or use an anonymous file share like file.io or file dropper. Never send me (or anyone else) personal data.
7. Please do not drop out immediately after the game or session ends. Let's give, at the least, each other a quick feedback. Should this not work out please do not hesitate to DM me. If I cannot answer immediately, I will later. Also, please make sure that after a session you have some time on your hands to properly take care of yourself. Calm down, clean yourself up, maybe take a shower. Lie down a bit. Have a bite to eat. Use a light, fragrance-free(!) lotion on irritated skin.

Kinks and Limits

I like:
D/S: Dominance and Submission. Command and obedience. Power exchange. Call it what you want, that's what gets me. Everything else, to me, is a manifestations of this.
Humiliation: Making you strip, kneel, crawl, spread, masturbate, fuck yourself, eat your cum.
Pain: Making you hurt yourself in (hopefully) creative ways.

I do not like and/or will not do or have you do:
Endless edging. Feminization. Everything that is dangerous: Blood, scat, breath control, long term bondage etc.

I treat every game as it's own thing. I am not looking for any long term "relationships" of any kind. So do not ask me to become your permanent mistress or regular play partner.

Technical stuff

1. Be mobile. I often like people to move around a bit, stand up, lay down... you should still be able to use (or at least see) the chat. A phone is often too small and it's hard to type on it. So a Notebook with a full battery is ideal.
2. Sound. I regularly incorporate sounds and metronomes, so be sure you can hear them.
3. WAIT/GO: I might have a longer set of instructions that I want my partner to read completely before starting. I will start those with "(WAIT)". This means you stay put and continue reading until I tell you to actually begin, something like "GO!" or "NOW!".

Messaging me

You ignoring these will likely lead to me ignoring your message.

1. Tell me at what days/times you are usually able to play, including your time zone. My schedule is full and usually not very flexible, so we need to establish early if we actually have a chance for matching time window.
2. Tell me a little about what you are looking for, what you are expecting from a session. Especially if your profile is not very clear or detailed on this topic.
3. Don't be afraid to bore me with too much text, I don't mind reading. I have yet to see somebody writing too much for my taste, almost all applicants err on the "too little information" side.
4. Don't expect me to jump right into a game with you, I usually don't do that, I like to exchange a few massages first. But of course you may try... sometimes something draws me. Recently I have dommed spontaneously more often, so if you are lucky I might just pick you in matchmaking...

Session Prep

There are a few things I prefer to know before I start a session. If you had prepared answers, we could get to the fun part more quickly ;)

1. Your kinks and limits, especially if they are not on your profile.
2. Your safeword and optionally slowword.
3. The environment we'll play in: Are we restricted to a room, or can you move freely around a flat/house? Do you have a shower in reach that could be used? How noisy can we be?
4. Timing: How long would you like the game to take? Do you have to quit at a certain time?
5. Toys List: I can only incorporate what I know about, so tell me what you have around to play with. Pictures of your collection are often very helpful.
6. Are you left- or righthanded? (Mostly because I do not want to say things like "non-dominant hand" all the time.)

Slave Rules

Have you read until here? Good for you, potential plaything ;). Now you get to know what I expect of you.

1. You will address me as "Mistress". A "Miss" is a young, usually sexually inexperienced women or an old spinster. This I am not.
2. Absolutely NO CUMMING without permission, not even ruined. If you get too close, stop whatever you are doing and tell your Mistress.
3. Also, no touching without without my permission, either. While we play, your genitals, ass (including cheeks), tits and nipples are mine. You do not touch what is mine unless allowed to.
4. Do not come to your Mistress looking like a slob. Slaves are either dressed smartly, in slave gear, or butt naked.