A switch, who is into soft domination. None of that humiliating, degrading stuff, I'm not into that shit. If you're edging me and denying me, you say "That's a strong man, holding it all in for me. I'm so proud of you". This melts my brain so much more than "You don't deserve to cum". And goes the other way too. I'm edging you, and ruining your orgasm, I don't degrade you like "Good sluts don't cum", but I actually praise you into submission. "That's beautiful, look at your pretty pussy, it's so beautiful when it throbs like that, isn't it?" I'll hold you and you can cry into my chest for support, but relief? No.
I can sometimes go hardcore too, and fully indulge in it, but I much prefer this soft domination from both dom and sub sides.