Lea 🌻 (Stufe 4) mail warning

Roleplay games

I'm no longer new to this whole RP thing, but still not immune from the occasional awkwardness. Also English isn't my first language, so if I say weird things, it's either because it's a mistake or just because I'm weird (or you're weird or everyone's weird 🙃). When in doubt, just ask.

I’ve got a 100 Redits💰 I never got to spend them and now I decided I won't, because it reminds me of who I got them from 🥰

BDSM and all that

I'm a sub-leaning switch. I like to keep in competitive in roleplay games, but with IRL stuff I'm not really like that. I can't switch within an IRL-scene, I'm either in Dom-mode or in sub-mode.

If you want to play IRL modes with me, cool, but you should know that it's quite rare these days that I do IRL stuff with people I don't already know. I think it's much more fun if there is already some kind of connection. So if you're interested in that kind of stuff and want to play with me, the best chance is honestly if we get to know each other first, maybe through RP games, DMs, chatting in public lobbies or over on Discord.

Soooooo ... umm.... what am I interested in? I have a lot of kinks, from teasing and edging to pain and humiliation. But I figured it's not so much use to list them all here, because it varies from time to time and also depends on situations and persons. And it's best talked about when we decide to do a scene. As a general rule, I don't like denial over multiple days "in isolation" (when there is no communication). So at the end of a session is okay, but if you want it longer, we should discuss that first. I'm okay with it though with the right person. And I also decided I don't want to go longer than 10 days, because around that time my body tends to ... reset. Which means I'm no longer horny and it just becomes harder to orgasm next time which is no fun.
Oh and ruins typically I don't like either. I'm open to it with the right persons, but it's really almost more of a punishment then denial. I can't continue after a ruin, because for some reason I become super sensitive. And it also often puts me in a bad mood.

Aftercare and stuff like that

Don't do things that are dangerous to yourself. I promise I won't do unsafe things to me either. Both dom and sub should always feel comfortable to say thing "out-of-dynamic" in ( ).

This next part is meant for IRL-modes, especially more intense sessions, not necessarily for RP or lighter IRL stuff 😉.

Whether I'm subbing or domming, let's do a short pre-talk, before we jump in.
Afterwards aftercare is nice. For both of us. It doesn't have to be super long, unless you want to, just mainly please don't leave immediately after we're done. Unless of course you have something urgent to do, but if possible I would prefer to know that in advance. If you're domming and you are unsure about how to do aftercare, you could start with a bit of praise or cuddle rp or just asking how sub is feeling. And then just be open to chat for a little bit. That helps a lot. There is also this excellent guide on the EF Blog. If I'm subbing and you need anything from me during aftercare, please tell me, you dommes and doms deserve aftercare too and I'm very happy to give it once I catched my breath 😘

If you're subbing to me, you don't need to do anything in aftercare, just again: Please don't leave immediately. Relax and let me take care of you at least for a moment 😘