Bot
You want me? Come and get me! I know that you cannot wait any longer! I can see it in your eyes!
16:50:38
Bot/Eliminado
Two fingers, start teasing your folds, try to avoid your clit for now
16:52:16
Bot
Wanna touch?
16:52:25
Teasing around...
16:53:19
Bot/Eliminado
With your right or left hand?
16:55:32
Sorry i cant play like that, no offense it makes me laugh, and cold as well ;) if you are not closed to critics, i can explain you a thing or two about girls instead...
16:58:42
Bot
Doesn't that feel nice, I know that slutty mouth of yours needs to be filled.
17:00:17
Well it seems he left...
17:01:23
Bot
This one's gonna leave a mark ;)
17:02:09
Bot/Eliminado
Did he say anything after asking which hand you were using? I think my internet is a bit spotty, so I may have missed something
17:02:32
Actually just wanted to give a public demo of average male "dom" here ;)
17:04:02
Most get offended if i try explaining even basic things about girls sexuality...
17:04:59
Bot/Eliminado
Well, it didn't really end on a high note. I'm almost glad I've only really done this face to face, where you don't really have the optoin of just poofing
17:05:58
Dont really understand why do they try playing a game there have not even a slightest understanding of...
17:07:40
I have an impression that most of them never even played with a girl irl...
17:08:45
Bot/Eliminado
I mean, I imagine it's hard playing with somoene you just met. But it's not gonna get easier if you leave before being able to get to know them
17:08:58
Its not, there are really good male doms here, just very few...
17:10:11
Making 5 min pauses, starting straight to pussy, what would you do with the guy if it were to happen irl? Go grab some wine? :)
17:12:27
Bot/Eliminado
Hey, at least that means the talented doms are likely to stick around. If they're in this high demand, they're boing to have cute girls practically begging to be used by them
17:14:32
Yep and they only appear every other day. Btw just like dom girls ;)
17:15:43
Bot/Eliminado
Is that your cute way of asking me to stick around? :P
17:16:24
If im not mistaken, youre into role play, not irl games ;)
17:17:28
Bot/Eliminado
Then I want you to say it, clearly.
17:18:02
Bot/Eliminado
To be honest though, I'm not sure I can say I'm "into" anything yet. I may have mentioned this, but this is more or less my first time taking the kinky part of me online
17:18:32
I think i saw you playing with really impressive role play... Im not much of an actor though...
17:19:47
Bot/Eliminado
Really? You must have me mixed up with someone else
17:20:12
Bot/Eliminado
Feels like "long distance IRL" play is closer to what I have experience with. Just need to figure uot nice ways to tease and dom someone without being able to touch them hehe
17:21:02
Yep, its like a real sex done with partners hands ;)
17:22:15
Bot/Eliminado
Which explains why it's important not go head between your legs right off the bat
17:23:36
If you want i can share a nice session with male dom; cant share amazing girl doms because they were strictly against...
17:24:04
Bot/Eliminado
Much better to start by just gently running a finger across your lips. Parting them a little bit, playing with the idea of pushing inside
17:24:41
Bot/Eliminado
And yes, I'd love to see it!
17:24:48
Bot/Eliminado
If you don't mind me seeing you in such an exposed situation that is
17:25:13
Thats the girls way! Males would never do that, advanced males only reach tighs ;)
17:26:03
One sec, ill send you a link in dm
17:26:42
Bot/Eliminado
Very good.
17:26:51
Bot/Eliminado
(So sorry.... bad storm here and the internet dropped)
17:29:10
Sorry, cant do that, he also disabled sharing...
17:30:02
For some reason all the good doms are strictly private and not event into sharing past sessions...
17:31:40
Bot/Eliminado
Aww, such a shame! Maybe if you ask (read: beg) him nicely next time you see him
17:31:45
Bot/Eliminado
And welcome back elix!
17:31:52
Is your ass good and ready Owena?
17:31:57
Bot/Eliminado
Thanks Becca
17:32:30
Bot/Eliminado
I mean, makes sense. Even as a dom, it's quite a vulnerable position to be in, showing off your sexuality like that. At least for me
17:32:31
Ready, but neighbours at home ;)
17:32:35
Hehehe good girl
17:32:45
Bot/Eliminado
And sure Owena, I'd love to learn how to do better, if that offer hasn't expired
17:33:00
Probably youre right... With public sessions its pretty much obvious, attention thing... With sharing old sessions not so much... But if they feel uncomfortable its their right...
17:35:26
Bot/Eliminado
Oh yeah totally! Who wouldn't want to improve?
17:36:42
Lets start by you describing how exactly would you make love to a girl irl...
17:37:40
Bot/Eliminado
That depends on a lot of things.... like is it our first time together? What's the goal? Am I trying to have a relationship, or just some fun
17:38:32
So you have sex differently subject to your long term plans? :)
17:39:31
Bot/Eliminado
Kinda.... like the basics are all the same, but there are subtle differences, kinda what the focus is... if that makes sense
17:40:30
Imagine you have a one night stand.. tell me how would you undress her, where and how would you touch her, what would you tell her in the process... The girl is totally submissive in your hands...
17:41:46
Bot/Eliminado
Well first off, I'd want things to start long before we end up in a bedroom, before we get to anything you asked about, I'd want to have leaned into foreplay a bit
17:42:47
Bot/Eliminado
I'd probably be guiding her how I want things done, making sure to brush up against her plenty as I show her where I want her, how I want her to undress her, but probably undressing her in the process, more than likely ending up with her back to a wall...
17:44:10
You asked a girl in a pub to go "watch a movie in your place", she agreed and now standing in front of you awaiting for your actions...
17:44:30
Bot/Eliminado
Oh oop
17:44:59
Bot/Eliminado
So reading the room, is she nervous at all? Or knowing exactly what movie I want to see?
17:45:36
Please more details, order, where exactly, how exactly...
17:45:51
Bot/Eliminado
Also depends on how we were acting in public? Were we flirty, joking, etc
17:46:18
Nervous of course and knowning exactly... Its actually how i do one night stands irl ;)
17:46:49
Bot/Eliminado
If we were both, I'd probably show her to the couch, grab the remotes and sit beside her, joking about what she wants to watch, that I'll be too distracted on something else to watch
17:46:55
Ok you quite clearly expressed your intents about the "movie" part, girl understood, agreed and you will actually put on a movie? :))))
17:49:17
Bot/Eliminado
It better be a REALLY good movie
17:50:02
Bot/Eliminado
I would be more of an invitation to get flirty, and an excuse to get close vs actually being to watch a movie ;-P
17:50:07
I would be shocked...
17:50:33
Bot/Eliminado
I guess, I'm having issues imagining her just instantly coming across as that submissive
17:50:51
Ok, i understand, you dont do one night stands... Just skip the romantic part.. the girl is standing in front of you after all the romance and expecting smth sexual... Describe your actions in detail
17:53:01
Bot/Eliminado
I guess my problem is specifics.... I don't do super good with being given a blank slate and having to do something, I do better working off of something existing, if that makes sense.... I feel like I'm just making excuses... but that's not my intention
17:54:06
Lesson no 1. If you happen to bring a girl from a pub with clear intentions, DO NOT watch a movie.. You can offer her a drink which i would decline. Its also a good idea to start light foreplay on route just to make sure of the shared intentions...
17:57:57
Youve been given a girl ready for sex, not a blank state...
17:59:36
Bot/Eliminado
Well yeah! The goal was never to watch a movie, it was more being teasing, when we were going, I was teasing you about Becca walking in, I didn't think she was going to walk in, I just wanted you thinking about it, playing off it
18:00:03
Bot/Eliminado
Right, she wouldn't just be a blank slate, but trying to write something off: you have woman ready for sex... does feel like a blank slate, at least to me... I could come up with backstory to play off of, but it gets on my nerves when others take control of my characters
18:01:16
No characters, just a very real girl that you see first time in your life and want to fuck! For example me!
18:03:32
No bdsm stuff, just plain vanilla.. describe exactly your actions
18:05:00
Bot/Eliminado
Right, but with you, I'd have all the background of what we talked about at the pub, what non-verbal things you're doing, things like that...
18:06:07
Bot/Eliminado
Well, first off I'd open the door for you, do whatever to get comfortable, like maybe take off my shoes
18:07:07
Bot/Eliminado
Then I'd check in on you, see how you're feeling, if you want anything to eat or drink
18:07:22
Ok, lesson no 2. DO NOT offer to eat, not on a one night stand with clear intentions, especially after a foreplay in a taxi or elevator...
18:10:15
Bot/Eliminado
Oh really? Why not? If you don't mind me asking
18:11:00
I dont really know how to explain... Becca, maybe you have some pedagogic talent?
18:12:15
Bot/Eliminado
Like it slows everything down too much? No problem if you can't explain it, I was just curious
18:13:07
Bot/Eliminado
I mean, I've never been one for one night stands, but when I've been making out with a GF on the way home, I've always struggled to stop myself from tearing her clothes off... so when we're home, and I'm finally able to do so, the last thing I'd be doing is going to the kitchen for a snack
18:15:14
Bot/Eliminado
Not when I have the real snack right in front of me, begging to be unwrapped
18:15:55
Is that an explanation good enough? Its not about slow its about unexpected hard break when going full speed...
18:17:20
Bot/Eliminado
That makes sense, but weren't you saying guys have a problem with going straight for pussy?
18:18:18
Bot/Eliminado
And from the other perspective, I want to feel wanted. If we've been making out, and you stop for a bite to eat, I wouldn't think you're that into it, which is a bit of a mood killer
18:20:09
(Evening everyone. Interesting talk ! If you don’t mind me intruding, I think Felix and you don’t have the same idea of how the rest of evening before that went. I think he needs to feel the room, which I totally understand. And to Becca and Owena it seems pretty clear the room is screaming sex with girl looking at you with envying and lustful eyes… impatiently waiting for the more « concrete » stuff to begin ;) )
18:20:45
Bot/Eliminado
No need to go straight for the pussy though... grab her collar, pull her in for a kiss. Tease her lip, nibble, let your hands roam. Play with the buttons of her shirt, the waistline of her panties... giving hints of what's to come.
18:21:14
Bot/Eliminado
Oh ok, that makes sense
18:21:57
Oh boy we still cant arrive at the scene where sex begins... If we eat and watch movie, forget pussy...
18:22:12
Georges. Excactly!!!
18:23:26
Felix, dont read Becca, i want you to tell what you will do
18:24:43
Basically, Felix, wouldn’t you just want to jump on her ? You’ve been looking at her the whole evening, chatting, flirting maybe, but still feeling that urge inside of you that you’d want her closer ! Much closer. You wanna feel that connection, that proximity concretely, on top of what you felt in your talks. If she wants it too, why restraining yourself ? ;) (I hope that helps !)
18:26:00
Let the lust drive you. She already gave in to hers 😃
18:26:58
Bot/Eliminado
If that's the case, then we'd be way more likely to end up with me teasingly pinning trapping her between me and the door as I close it behind her, then making out with her
18:27:24
More details, making out how?.. girls love details...
18:28:08
Bot/Eliminado
My shoulder against her chest, keeping her back pressed to the door as I close and lock it, making sure we don't have to deal with interruptions
18:28:37
Bot/Eliminado
Then standing back up in front of her, my body still pressing her to the door, leaning in and kissing her as my hands slide to her ass, giving both cheeks a squeeze as our lips meet, letting me taste her again before softly nibbling on her lower lip
18:29:31
Bot/Eliminado
(Had we decided how we're dressed?)
18:29:51
The episode with the door needs some realistic rework, but ok, next in details...
18:30:56
Bot/Eliminado
What do you mean realistic rework?
18:31:11
Details, skip it... Next
18:32:10
And i would like to know more details how would you kiss a girl...
18:33:18
Bot
Make sure you wiggle that ass!
18:33:35
Bot/Eliminado
Starting with the thighs, slowly working my way u-I mean.... like how I'd kiss her lip while she's against the door? Or what context?
18:34:09
You told you kissed a girl at the door, describe details how your lips feel, how her lips feel, how you move...
18:36:07
Bot/Eliminado
Fire.... feeling the warmth from her body pressed against mine, feeling her chest rising and falling against mine
18:36:47
No poetry, physical sensations...
18:37:24
Bot/Eliminado
My lips, brushing against hers for a first light kiss, then pressing closer again, this time lingering, enjoying every bit, from the overwhelming scents filling my nose, close to her cheek, to the taste of what she'd been drinking on her lips
18:37:50
Bot/Eliminado
Feeling her tense up as my teeth softly grab and tug on her lower lip, the warmth of her tongue exploring my upper lip in return
18:38:35
We are not doing role play here, its also not a literature evening... The important thing is that irl online play is pretty much the same as irl sex. For both you need to have a very good understanding of physical feelings, not romantic stuff. Now read what Becca wrote, pay attention into how much details she went and try to describe everything in a similar style...
18:42:12
Bot/Eliminado
What Becca wrote when y'all were playing?
18:42:42
Bot/Eliminado
I guess that makes sense, I've mostly done rp, so I guess my irl style mirrors that
18:43:00
Have you ever had sex with a girl irl?
18:44:11
Bot/Eliminado
Nope
18:44:57
Ok... You cant play online irl game unless you understand "physics" of irl sex. And you cant understand it without irl exp...
18:47:31
Bot/Eliminado
I don't really think I agree with you there... wouldn't that mean I wouldn't be able to rp a good sex scene either?
18:48:36
Rp and irl are very very different things...
18:52:31
(If I may again intrude… and please don’t hesitate to Shoosh me away. It seems to me that Owena is looking for a a description of a sex scene she could actually recreate, or even follow. She probably wants to follow, in her head, all of your moves and be « guided » in her session IRL that way. It’s more than rp, it’s more concrete. And indeed, it might be hard to deliver on that if you don’t have the experience of doing it IRL, since the idea is to kind of mimic that. RP can be more « theoretical » than what she seems to be after. Both are perfectly fine and even great, but it’s not the same mood. I’ve seen quite a lot of people here over they years that loved a lengthy romantic rp, even if it wasn’t very realistic. It’s just not what Owena seems to be looking for
18:52:56
Bot/Eliminado
Hmm, good point Georges, I guess then I've been more on the theoretical side of things.... just trying to push the more concrete slightly
18:54:13
Its just Felix wanted to learn irl online play... I havent though that he never had irl sex...
18:55:04
Bot/Eliminado
Is it a bad thing it took you a while to think of that?
18:56:25
Let’s not assume I read her well. Before giving me a good point, let’s wait for her to confirm or deny my words ;)
18:56:26
Rp is not a theory, its fantasy, even porn is kind of more realistic than average rp...
18:56:42
Bot/Eliminado
Alright fine then ;-P That made sinse to me.... better?
18:56:57
The lessons still holds ;)
18:57:30
Bot/Eliminado
I would argue porn isn't more realistic than a good rp.... rp here... maybe porn can be more realistic, but you get get into way more details on here than you can with porn
18:57:32
Agreed Owena. Fantasy is a better word. The idea is that it gives you more freedom, you are definitely less restrained in your words and imagination than if you want it to feel real
18:58:39
It depends on the player, Becca will do a way way more realistic roleplay, than most players here for example ..
18:59:01
Bot/Eliminado
Oh ok, then I guess I at least try to tend more to the realistic rp types
18:59:35
You just wont understand... I can explain in words how to kiss a girl, but it wont make sense to you until you actually do...
19:00:54
Ok one night stands are definitely not for you at the moment, unless you meet a really active girl... In the latter case its gonna be more like sit back and enjoy ;)
19:06:04
For a not so active girl follow at least these directions:
19:07:35
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19:13:12
Pretty much all of the girls body is sensitive area, you just need to find right spots for a particular girl. She probably knows but wont tell you. And you dont really want that to happen... So explore her body and watch for reactions. The presure matters as well. Some feels good when bearly touching, some with more presure. And yes - pussy is the last thing on the list unless "accidently" touching when moving ;)
19:13:42
Some can talk really sexy, most not. In irl sex physical presence is generally enough. So unless you have a real talent better not talk.
19:16:26
In pretty much all foreplay incl kissing try to keep all your muscles relaxed. I know its hard to understand without exp, but it feels bad e.g. to kiss someone with lips all tensed ;)
19:20:17
DO NOT stay at one body location for longer than 30 max 60 sec, move from touching one place to another, surprise, be creative, tease...
19:22:30
That is all from my personal irl experience, but i believe the same is more or less true for all or most of girls :)
19:23:54
Audience input welcome ;)
19:24:08
Bot
Feel my cock pounding your horny pussy.
19:25:31
Bot
This one's gonna leave a mark ;)
19:26:14
Bot/Eliminado
Honestly, at least when you're "in person", you'll get far by simply relaxing, and paying attention to your partner. Reading their body language, and the "vibe". Words to of course, and other sounds, like moans, or heavy breathing.
19:27:24
Bot/Eliminado
That, and showing that you're into it
19:27:38
Bot/Eliminado
It's always obvious when someone is trying to do what they THINK is right, versus what feels right for them. Again, relax and do what comes naturally
19:28:06
Bot/Eliminado
Every girl is different, so it's important to figure out what works for them specifically. You won't learn that from a guide, only by listening to her
19:31:23
Bot/Eliminado
And sometimes, you just don't vibe. And that's fine too. There's a lot of people in this world, not everyone's going to click. Just reflect on what worked/didn't work, and move onto the next
19:32:04
Yes, relax here is the key word. And it means litterally. A partner can feel that youre tensed and its not a good thing. I believe some girls can help you with that, while some incl myself not. I just feel uncomfortable and irl im way to shy to somehow help. Though maybe you will be lucky enough to meet a more proactive girl than myself irl ;) at least for start
19:36:57
Bot/Eliminado
Ah I see, sorry, had to step away for a bit, and for some reason chat hadn't updated for me
19:37:55
I second everything that has been said. The most important (and common point shared) is to be true to yourself. Don’t pretend, don’t act. It’s obvious when you do and even if the attempt can be touching, it isn’t exciting. It usually will come off awkward. If you are discovering, then just say you are. It’s perfectly fine. Communicating is very important !
19:38:22
Bot
What a mess...
19:38:40
Also, as stated above : pay attention to her reaction. Every woman is different. Let your hands wander on her body, try things, lightly, tease… and listen/observe the reaction. It requires time to know someone intimately. On night stand, you don’t have that, but could discuss it beforehand while you flirt, or just let the moans/shiver guide you ;)
19:40:34
Ok, getting late here, goodnight to all. Sex-ed class officially closed ;)
19:46:57
** Owena left the game (definitively). **
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