Hello!
I am a middle aged, European male. I am on EF to explore aspects of my personality and sexuality that I cannot explore in real life. I speak English and German fluently. This character represents, as far as I choose to go with this, my "real" self, not a role playing personality. And no, the image is of course not me.
I am looking for ILR / Interactive modes of play only. While in real life I am mostly straight, maybe a little bi-curious, I am open for having games with people of any gender or identity.
I am mainly interested in the Dominance/Submission aspect of BDSM. As a way of transporting this sweet dynamic of power exchange, I enjoy medium pain (like spanking, clamps, CBT) and humiliation (obeying commands, doing tasks). Currently I especially want to explore my submissive side. But I dom, too, if the opportunity presents itself.
I am neutral or ambiguous towards anal, heavy verbal degradation, edging and bondage. Meaning, I would not enjoy if these made up the main content of a session, but they could well be part of the experience, in milder forms.
My hard limits are dangerous stuff (like injuries/blood, scat, breath control, long term bondage), sissy/feminisation, markings and modifications.
My toys are nearly exclusively re-purposed household items, but I believe I am quite creative with this. Should you find anything missing please let me know, and I'll see what I can do ;)
* belts, narrow paddle (or broad crop), cane
* 2 pairs of improvised nipple clamps (medium, hard) with a chain to connect them and different weights (3x 75g, 1x 120g, 1x180g)
* improvised (but safe) dildos both for up top and down below
* the usual household stuff: String/Shoelace, clothespins, toothpaste, brushes, icecubes, a small bucket...
Responsible (meaning safe, sane and consensual) play is important to me, as is a certain degree of general manners and reliability.
If you are interested in playing, or just having a chat, please DM me.
I am regularly switching this character's kink and toy settings around, so please do not believe what it says about that below.
You can keep some notes on this character. You'll be the only one to be able to see this:
