I´m more on the soft side, but you never know. I´m a switch (leaning a bit more to the sub side but-) who also likes to fight a bit for control, though in a more playful manner. I speak in english but it´s not my primary language and I´m also pretty new to (role~)playing (so I might be not that expressive and do more dirty talk than rp) :)
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