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I like to play as close to IRL games/fights as much as possible, with us actually doing the tasks to each other. having said that, I can totally enjoy a game without IRL, too. i love a variety of games and teasing/edging and some pain (CBT etc. if that's what you're into) ... but most of all I like to not be sure of what will happen -- the suspense is what turns me on most. I can be totally submissive, but I can also get totally into the mood to dominate, and the hottest of all for me is back and forth switching, pushing each other to our limits. I'm also willing to try anything new or hear any idea ... I just wanna have a good time and I aim to please. I saw on Laura's profile that she likes "Power struggle and reversal from Dom to Sub". That's right up my alley...

I've happily played
classic
love
wrestling
interactive
and femdom
before and i'm down to try something new too if you have an idea.

Anything involving dice or cards or other chance operations sounds pretty hot to me, too...
I do like the standard bondage and hypno dice rules, but it's not a requirement for me (i.e. have to roll 5-6 to escape bondage / have to roll 5-6 to avoid opponent picking action in hypno)

I've some great games/battles/fights (feels like different word applies to different encounters, you know?) with wwq, Huhu, Nikita, kjjjj, Bad Miss, and sweet dom. They took me on some super unexpected journeys. But the craziest yet was with Sparky. We did a long interactive game with mirrored IRL actions, edged each other many times with interspersed pain play -- incredible switch play -- and then we played a classic game to decide who would get to cum. Only the winner could cum IRL. Cumming before victory in the classic game meant we both had to edge. It was epic. I lost lol and then I was completely destroyed for the rest of the day, couldn't focus and had stuff I had to do. Amazing hehe. Easily replicable format if you're into it!

let's see what can happen...

PS i'm down to get together on a one-time video link to heighten the IRL feel, if you want to, but it's not necessary at all! You don't have to show if you don't want to, I guess I'm just a bit of an exhibitionist hehehe

turn ons:
edging/orgasm control/building up and down
ballbusting/cbt
orgasm control
chance games/challenges/unknown endings/suspense/surprise
power struggle
impact play
bondage
boob/nipple play/torture (big soft spot... can't lie...)
toys!
watching each other!

turn offs:
anal
blood
scat
pee
too much repetitive humiliation (some is ok, just don't like it becoming the main thing!)