Mister Valentine (Level 21) mail warning

Introduction

About Me

This profile is combining RP and IRL aspects, and split into according sections, although there is overlap, like kinks and interests. I am usually doing somewhat of a partial RP in games and public chats, and while many things might be accurate for the person behind this profile, so some facts, statements and jokes might be role play, nothing more. It really depends on the type of interaction, and is usually tongue-in-cheek, so it will hopefully be obvious enough.

Hi everyone! I am a very kinky individual, and in my late twenties. After I became filthy rich with my tech company VISION, I took up residence in EF City together with my assistant Lucy to live out my kinks and fantasies, and hopefully meet like-minded people. This is not limited to people interested to play, as I am keen on talking kinks, exchanging experiences or even chatting about other common interests.

What I'm Interested In

Open to playing with cis and trans girls as well as non-binary people. I am generally much more flexible with my sexuality than the few check-boxes on this site allow. I am a true switch, and while my default might lean a bit more into the dominant side, and people being a brat might help bringing that side out more prominently, I can get submissive if a person pushes the right buttons (and enjoy having my mood changed from one to the other).

I like different game modes. Classic and IRL games (for which the mode pretty much doesn't matter, chat is where the real fun is in any case) are my favorites, but recently I got a taste for fantasy, made an alt for this (who naturally comes with an alt for Lucy as well. RP in DMs is fun as well, and I am open to other modes. For RP I can enjoy competitive games depending on the context, but IRL games are best held in private in my opinion. Thanks to some people, I am opening up in that regard.

Current game mood: RP > IRL play

While I definitely do enjoy more vanilla or even affectionate things from time to time, my main interest is on the kinkier side, especially BDSM. That doesn't mean at all that stuff is limited to this, because generally, I am a very open minded person and surely an experimentalist as well, so hit me up no matter if you are looking to play some interactive/IRL games, have a competitive match with lots of smack talk, someone to try your new RP idea, or just chat about kinks. This also goes for stuff not mentioned on here. So far, I played the part of dom in most games I took part in, and even though I prefer it, some variety is important to me, so by any means hit me up in case you would be open to take this role in a shared session.

My kinklist, as well as the results of the BDSM-Test, can be found below. I am also trying to create a more visually appealing kink list, which I have created an extra profile for, so this one will not be overloaded with images.

The settings on the profile, both for sexual orientation and role and in some cases even kinks, are mainly game settings, and thus are subject to changes and might not fully reflect my preferences. If ever in doubt, the text on my profile is likely to be more accurate. Please keep in mind that this goes both ways, so even if you can join me with my current settings I might not be interested. For example chastity and sissification (especially when used as a tool for humiliation) are major turn-offs for me, so if your profile is centered around either we are simply not a good match.

Oh, and one last thing: Please no silent matches. Might as well play bots then.

RP / Games Section

Games

Competition used to be a big thing for me on this site. In a way, it still is, but it should never get in the way of both of us enjoying ourselves, and the RP is much more important than the result of clicking some actions. Especially since the outcome of the game itself is, frankly, very random, but what can be much more interesting is a power dynamic as part of the role play. A struggle for domination, a back and forth of who's in control or an unexpected shift in the dynamic is something I really enjoy, and also a thing that goes well with my nature as a switch. I have no issue playing full subs or even full doms, but subs should not just roll over and be a doormat, just as doms shouldn't expect me to obey them by default, without putting in a little effort to tease or otherwise get me into the right mindset.

I love the bondage dice rules in classic (roll a d6, get free on a 5 or 6, otherwise skip your turn or use an action that is defensible in bondage like "Squirm in your ties", and retry the roll next turn), especially without a turn limit. Same goes for hypno (with the possible addition that the hypnotizer chooses the action of the hypnotized person), although I don't always have the kink enabled since I have (at least in the more realistic modes) a bit of a hard time with the absurdity of some of the moves.

Other rules can be fun, but if they get excessive, they can take away too much fun of the game, so while I enjoy bets, I might not always be up for one with a rule at stake. Especially profile changes and similar stuff are not my cup of tea at all (stuff like this has to be earned by being a cool person, no. Lets do fun bets that can be resolved in RP or maybe IRL instead!

If we go along with the actions, I don't like playing games with opponents who have a very one-sided configuration of kinks, or combinations that are just "meta". While I like my games competitive, fun will always be my highest priority. As such, I will pick non-optimal actions if I think they suit the current mood, RP or flow of the game better.

Speaking of RP, I think a good game should always at least contain some dirty talk or smack talk, and light to medium RP is even better. Also, I think competitive games are most fun when they are public, with an active audience chat!

Roleplay

As time went on, my love for RP only grew, and I started to care less and less about competition in my games. If we manage to create a RP we both enjoy and that gets both of us all horny, that's the true way to win a game, together. I like to get very descriptive and fleshed out, and love setting a mood around the scene instead of just focusing on actions alone. And for me, that includes some nice dirty talk. With those things in mind, I will try to somewhat match your style (and that way hopefully your preferences as well) regarding length and level of detail.

Since finding time for actual games can be very difficult, I am down for some schedule-friendly extended RP in DMs, where we both give long, detailed answers whenever we find the time.

With a suitable and consenting partner, I am happy to venture into some much kinkier areas in private ones compared to public RPs. Communication is still key though, and I will insist on both of us making sure the RP goes into a direction we are both ok with. So don't be afraid to show me your kinkiest side. Even if we do not match, I will not judge you.

Oh, and maybe it needs to be said: Moaning alone does absolutely not qualify as RP.

Some RP ideas

All ideas are suggestions and can be adapted to the preferences of the partner. The following symbols help with categorization and avoiding reading about topics you do not enjoy:
🩷: Pink partner
💙: Blue partner
🤍: Subby Valentine
🖤: Dommy Valentine
🕸️: BDSM
😈: CNC
🧝: Fantasy
(): Optional elements in brackets
/: One or the other (first one generally preferred)

[🩷🖤🕸️] Valentine's Dungeon
More of a setting than a scenario, but one I am usually happy to explore. Very flexible to be adjusted based on which elements of the dungeon intrigue you most - and which ones you'd rather avoid.

[🩷(🖤🤍🕸️)] Job interview at VISION
A promising applicant comes to Mister Valentine's office, her eyes set on the job. Will she be able to convince him she's the right person to hire. Maybe by proving she's a good girl? Or will she show how she can take charge of things?

[🩷🖤/🤍🕸️] Tied plaything
That is a big one and can have each of us be the tied plaything. The plaything will be tied spread eagle to the bed and first be teased and edged, maybe subjected to some pleasurable pain, made really needy for their orgasm. But when the orgasm comes, the teasing won't stop. The person on top will use their hands, mouth, genitals and toys show the tied plaything that they should be careful what they wish for... In the most wonderful way.

[🩷] The most shocking one
Shocking? But I do have a sweet side. This one contains no BDSM, no real power dynamic... Just the two of us, having a passionate and affectionate time together. Don't kink-shame me on this one.

[🩷] Two with nature
Basically fucking. But outside. Not in front of a crowd, but instead on a nice day somewhere in nature and alone. Nothing fancy but it seems like a nice change of scenery.

[🩷🖤🤍] Sexual tension rising
Let's go to a fancy event together. The catch? We both know we can't get intimate there. What we can do however, is tease each other at every opportunity. Show of what we can sneakily. Tell each other what we want to do to each other. Put our fingers on the right buttons of the other. Maybe there's even some remote-controllable toys involved? All teasing, no release... Until we get home and rip each other's clothes off.

[🩷🖤->🤍🕸️] Discovering her dominant side
Power dynamics are fun. Shifting power dynamics are even more fun. I always loved the idea of a shy, more sub leaning girl wanting to try out dominating (maybe even with the help of a more experienced domme?), and after a hesitant start getting really into it, discovering a whole new side of her, newfound confidence, and maybe even getting a little too enthusiastic.

[🩷🖤/🤍🕸️] You won't need your pussy/cock to cum, right?
Orgasms are great. But does it always have to be the classical way, directly stimulating your pussy? Not at all! How about a session where the goal is to cum without getting even a bit of stimulation on it? While restrained, getting your nipples and/or ass played with, teasing touches everywhere, except for where you want them most. So you can either experience a whole new kind of orgasm... or a very frustrating and lengthy teasing. Might also be fun to do this one in reverse and make me cum without touching my cock.

[🩷🖤🕸️] Beta testing VISION's new fuck machine
Lucy is tired of being the one who has to test the fucking machines, so VISION hires (unsuspecting?) outside help. Of course, since it was created by a bondage fan like Valentine, the machine straps you in nicely before it begins it's magic. The machine is highly configurable to serve your kinks, but the exact interpretation can be a bit surprising (only if you are into getting pushed a little). Can include tentacles, but the non-organic kind.

[🩷🖤🕸️😈] Breaking Brat
Darker scenario, combining brat taming with kidnapping. Maybe you rubbed someone the wrong way, or maybe it's just your partner fulfilling a big fantasy? Either way, you find yourself at someone's mercy, and he is set to work on that bratty attitude of yours...

[🩷🤍/🖤🕸️(😈)] The sadistic nurse/doctor
Darker scenario, combining medical play with CNC. But being exposed to certain instruments and experiments can be very hot... Maybe it's just testing how often a subject can cum... Or something meaner. All within our limits.

[🩷🖤(🕸️😈)🧝] The unlucky adventurer
In this scenario, I will get the opportunity to combine my passion as a dungeon master with my passion as a dungeon master. Meaning if you ever wanted to play an adventurer who gets herself into all kinds of unfortunate situations? The possibilities of what that situations could be are quite flexible, making it a good one to tailor to the overlap in our kinks.

[🩷🤍🕸️😈🧝] The drow's new plaything
Maybe that one falls into the category of stuff I am too embarrassed to share publicly. But fuck it. Who wouldn't love to be captured by one or more hot dark elf girls and turned into their plaything? Have her or them be really mean in all kinds of fun ways? No? OK, maybe it's just me. (More details can be shared at requests, but maybe it doesn't all need to go on my profile.)

[❓] Your favorite fantasy
I am always happy to help fulfilling your fantasies. After all, giving pleasure is one of my favorite kinks (and I love trying new things)!

[❓] The ones too kinky for sharing publicly
There are a couple of different fantasies I am not comfortable sharing here directly. It's nothing illegal, gross, or violating the CoC, but opening up can be difficult! So I share them with only people who are either extremely kinky themselves or I am comfortable with... But you can always ask, who knows, I might consider you one of the two!

I would like to also clarify that despite me liking and having some CNC scenarios listed here, I do care a lot about consent. Which means that I would never bring this topic to someone who's not 100% on board with it, and that those scenarios need especially careful planning to make sure we are both in control of the situation.

IRL Section

Me as a partner for interactive games

In interactive games, I usually take the role of the dom, but am very open to try out the other side as well. While I sometimes like to include the ingame actions, in my experience, it is most fun to mainly use the chat to give and receive instructions, so the mode doesn't matter to much to me. I like to include beats, timers and other features available via chat commands in the sessions.

I am a huge pleasure dom, generally very caring, but I do have a mean streak and enjoy mixing pain and pleasure to make sure you have an amazing time. I like to use a lot of toys on my playthings and even let them tie themselves up. In any case though, I will do my best to make sure you are cared for and safe, actually I have received the compliment that I make my subs feel that way quite a few times, and it's one of the highest I could have received in my opinion. Hence, to see my really mean side, I will need to know you and your limits at least a bit, or at least have trust in your ability and willingness to recognize your own limits and communicate accordingly. I love to tame bratty subs, and think brattiness is a great means of communication, to show whether you want me to be meaner or nicer, and that without even breaking character or the flow of the session.

Again, good communication is key, and this is even more important for IRL play. There are lots of nice blogposts on this site detailing why, so please check them out if you have any doubts. People who's usage of the chat in IRL games is limited to "Yes Sir" are the equivalent to the RP/competitive people who think moaning qualifies as RP.

Some etiquette for IRL games

Dos

1. Communicate openly: This includes many things, your likes, limits and today's preferences, but also how you're feeling. Checking in is super important, and depends on communication for online play.
2. Common interests: Our kinks should at least have some overlap to both get something out of the session.
3. Mutual care: Take care of each other and be mindful of each other's needs. A good example to show you care would be to write me "super random code word" to show me you read this.
4. Feedback on tasks: Tell your partner if tasks are done, announce edges. No one likes asking for every bit of info.
5. Aftercare: It doesn't have to be long or super extensive, but it really helps both of us to get out of our respective headspaces and also feel valued by each other.

Nice to haves

1. An informative profile: Not a must in any way, but being able to read about your kinks, limits and toys make things way nicer and saves a lot of questions.
2. Taking our time: I love longer sessions, and like you to cum multiple times. So while not mandatory it is certainly appreciated.
3. Repetition: Games only get better the more we know each other, so it will definitely be more fun if we have more than one session together if the first one goes well.
4. Be bratty: It's cool if that's just not your style, but if it is, it's a nice way to communicate if you want things to get more intense or slow down, and fully inside your role.
5. Let me know how you are: Messages afterwards how you liked it, things your would like to try or just how you are feeling after things had time to cool down are greatly appreciated.

Don'ts

1. Be dishonest: Be it about your interests (which really helps none of us), your intentions or even who you are, this can be harmful in quite a few ways.
2. Just cum and leave: There's nothing making the other person feel worse than "Thx for getting me off, bye". Same goes for other things that make the other person feel used.
3. Just leave in the middle: Just rude. Even if something urgent comes up or you think I killed the mood with something or am just an awful partner altogether, please let me know, at the very least afterwards when you have time again.
4. Top from the bottom: I always plan abd aim to make things as enjoyable as possible, include your kinks, and in addition I am always open for requests. There's no need to try to micromanage me dominating you exactly like you want, in that case, kindly go dom yourself.
5. Use me as a dom on demand: Tired of subs being demanding when horny and ignoring me when not. I'm not a fucking instruction/task/JOI robot.

Kinky Section

Kinklist

This list assumes all listed kinks are done responsibly and with full consent. Things involving persons or living beings unable to consent are not included and should be considered a hard limit.

Loves & Likes:
- Causing others to enjoy themselves
- Taking control of someone or giving it up
- Bondage
- Bratty subs
- Pain
- Nipple and breast play
- Spanking (giving)
- Edging, forced orgasms, post orgasm stimulation
- CNC
- Teasing, dirty talk, mocking
- Bullying/girls being mean (if it's done in a witty/funny way, not mean-spirited)
- Confidence
- Tickling
- Light CBT
- Anal (especially prostate play)
- Most BDSM stuff not listed elsewhere

Dislikes:
- Feet on body/genitals
- Chastity
- Extreme CBT
- Verbal degradation
- Cuckolding (giving)
- Denial
- "Doormat"-subs or "I am a dom, obey me"-doms.

Limits:
- Feet in mouths
- Sissification
- Cuckolding (receiving) - this is a trigger if done without consent
- Extreme degradation/hate speech
- Permanent harm/consequences/body modifications
- Sending IRL pictures
- Scat

There's a lot of stuff I feel pretty neutral on. Everything not listed in limits would be something I'm at least open about being asked (keep in mind there might be limits I do not know about yet, I'll be nice about it, but please be as well), also, since I really care about the enjoyment of others, I am usually happy to include stuff you like, even if it doesn't do much for me.

In addition to the list above, I have created a visual kinklist in which I collected some gifs I enjoy and think display some of my kinks well, so be sure to check it out! If you like what you see, we definitely have some common interests.

In general I think the Code of Conduct does a great job with filtering out common limits, but I should add that while for example some ears or a tail can be quite cute, features beyond step one on this scale are really not my thing.

BDSM-Test

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat tamer
100% Switch
100% Rigger
93% Rope bunny
91% Dominant
90% Brat
83% Sadist
74% Experimentalist
66% Submissive
56% Master/Mistress
52% Masochist
45% Primal (Hunter)
36% Degrader
31% Owner
30% Degradee
29% Vanilla
24% Non-monogamist
23% Primal (Prey)
14% Voyeur
11% Daddy/Mommy
6% Slave
3% Exhibitionist
2% Pet
0% Boy/Girl
0% Ageplayer

Variety
Always
Leads
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New
Toy
Into
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Experiences

Thank you 😉