Thinking Aloud About Eropets: Kink Discussion!

As Winston explained in this thread, Eropets tournament is being discussed to give it a renewed and engaging format, but still keeping its core concepts.

Winston figured that it would be really helpful when making the penalty and punishment lists to gain some insight on why people like certain kinks. So let's start with something relatively simple and broad!

Why do you like femdom? Is there a particular aspect or sub-kink related to it that you especially enjoy?

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Because I love the feeling of being humiliated and used by another person

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Because I love the feeling of being humiliated and used by another person

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Because Women are superior and showing some teasing and authority break men and put them on their knees!

Because we need to live under Gynarchie, matriarchy,…

Because of pegging! And reverse the role of fucking… and the P-spot massaging… and the hips move of women… ate so damn hot!

For me Femdom have a few sexy Humilation Tasks that Maledom dont have in the same sexy way :

"Lick my highheels or high leather boots  clean untill they shine"

"Lick my feet or legs"
…are for my opinion more sexy when a woman say that than when a guy would do it in domination play

Or the whole concept of cuckholding for example are in my openinion a way to dom that works better when a guy is the reciving one and a woman is the one who cuckhold him with another man or woman

Another example  is feminisation
That is a whole kink that works the greatest when a woman is the dominat part and a guy is the reciving one

Teasing  while in combination with  chastity play can  also be a spicey femdom kink 

Pegging , Total or Erotic Power exchange are also great options for femdom or domestic servitude in combination with them

Being around mix sexually with both having a male and female open discussions I learn a lot. The male can if you like to put you in a pretzel 🥨 position and ground you, while a female gotta be a little more creative unless they can bench you (watch out little frame cuties).

Femdom: Can give you the role of being mistress and I fuck if she a good Dom I would carry a rose on my lips and beg to let me know what she likes.

So most I love about femdom is the role of being in charge of the other whole company my self pleasure of the sub, and sometimes what I do like that could also strings to it is that if they want to be sexy strap they might end up collaring you instead. But I'm a switch but for subs, "sit, stay.. fuck. Good pet."

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For me Femdom have a few sexy Humilation Tasks that Maledom dont have in the same sexy way :

"Lick my highheels or high leather boots  clean untill they shine"

"Lick my feet or legs"
…are for my opinion more sexy when a woman say that than when a guy would do it in domination play

Or the whole concept of cuckholding for example are in my openinion a way to dom that works better when a guy is the reciving one and a woman is the one who cuckhold him with another man or woman

Another example  is feminisation
That is a whole kink that works the greatest when a woman is the dominat part and a guy is the reciving one

Teasing  while in combination with  chastity play can  also be a spicey femdom kink 

Pegging , Total or Erotic Power exchange are also great options for femdom or domestic servitude in combination with them

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Now we will move on to the next kink / topic: humiliation. There will be a lot of overlap here with the femdom question, I'm sure, so let's try to not repeat ourselves where possible.

Here is the question:

What kind of humiliation arouses you sexually as a submissive? Feel free to elaborate with specific examples, acts, positions, etc.

Personally I love it when mans under a womans feet. A woman ordering them to worship their feet makes me horny

As a switch I love the idea of being tied up and helpless or brainwashed and fully submitting against my will. Forced to corrupt myself and teased for it.

Also worshiping a man's cock or a womans feet is very degrading but highly arousing.

I really like the feeling of  high Power exchange  between me and my dom that i  get from humilation , its arousing to feel like he/she have the full controll over me and can do what my dom want

So for me its not only the physicaly degree you get from it , its also the mental thing that arouse me

To Name some examples :

Public humilation like getting drag on a leash while im naked and forced to walk on all 4s in public with many people watching  is a turn off  for me because i dont like the Exhibitionism part from having an audience while doing smt like that, but i love the pet play or the physical humilation aspect of this action so when im forced to do the same thing but in a more private space its extremly turning me on

Another Form of humilation that can be sexy is verbal Humilation that i personaly like when its not to heavy , i like it for example when my dom degree me here and there but long dirty talk is simply not for me

Oh and here is a list for some humilation examples that i like :

When my dom spit on me,  is extremely turning me on but reciving a facial with lots of  cum is also great 

To serve my dom in  degreeding clothes or in things that nearly cover nothing is also great , for example to wear a mini skirt or a short maid dress for houshold task like wiping the dust in rooms where you have to bend down a lot

Forced oral Sex where my dom force me to please him/her

Sexual Denial  in combination with teasing or bondage but also to be forced to beg for things like orgasm , masturbate  , spanks , to go out of the room or requiring permission for daily activities or so on

I admit that only a few people have been able to "enter in my mind" so much that I have decided to sub for them, but what I enjoy the most is the feeling of being under the thumb of someone that I perceive as completely superior to me. I love the idea of being controlled by them, always with the knowledge that this could lead to a tender domming, where their dominance become sweet control and caretaking (yes, I LOVE dommy mommies) or to a more rough (but never too much rough) approach, where their superiority has a veil of humiliation in it.

I hope this makes sense

Personally I love it when mans under a womans feet. A woman ordering them to worship their feet makes me horny

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Right - here's the next question:

What are your thoughts on bondage, and what are your hottest fantasies / scenarios regarding this kink? You may provide as much detail as you like without going over the Forum character limit.

Hot bondage fantasies huh~? How about…..tying up some cute subbie, attaching a vibrating toy to their respective genitalia, and then watching as they are edged to insanity, while you ignore their needy moans~?

In ropes, no one can hear you moan

As a switch I love the idea of being tied up and helpless or brainwashed and fully submitting against my will. Forced to corrupt myself and teased for it.

Also worshiping a man's cock or a womans feet is very degrading but highly arousing.

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i have been all about giving up control of my lovense edge 2 in game play.
Something about being blasted in the sissy hole when you least expect it during a game just adds to the excitement.
Also, giving up control on cam and having the controller be able to see and hear the effects they are creating is even more fun.

What do I like about femdom - The feeling of being out of control, giving up trust to another person. Of not knowing what is going to happen, will it be pain or pleasure, teasing or punishing, a ruined orgasm, POT or denial, an edge or a kick to the balls. you can forget everything else and focus only on the moment, the sensations and the feelings

Bondage and fantasies with it - Tight bondage means your choices are gone, of course you have a safe word, but now you cannot influence anything, when combined with a blindfold it heightens the senses, that sense of anticipation, the excitement. You cannot close your legs, you can't wiggle your hips, you can't pull your dick away if you are getting close, you cannot flinch before the crop connects. You find where your limits are, and explore them together, finding you can take more than you thought, and feeling the endorphins flow as you play, and descend in to subspace.

What are the games and fantasies here for me?
-Tease and denial - edged over and over, pleasure and then pain and then more edges, will she let you cum? will she deny you? ruin over and over? give you long POT?
-Ballbusting - Tied standing, legs spread, arms above you, you cannot move, you are blindfolded. will she kick you, knee you, squeeze them, punch them? How many times? how hard? what else will she mix in?
-Estim - wired up, at the flick of a switch she can cause you pain or pleasure. hard pulses or a gentle tickle. taking you to the edge or make you beg for mercy. is she at max power or just 40%. Will it end when you cum? Or will she just keep going up and up?
-Breathplay - Either through something more adventerous like a gas mask, or by simply grinding her pussy into your mouth and nose. How ling will you need to hold before she lets you take a breath? How many breaths will she let you take? Mix in some of the other things above to make even more intense.
-Temperature - hot wax, ice cubes, cold water, hot water and everything in between
-Chemical play - Bengay is for sure intense, toothpaste less so, all will get your attention
-Figging - Putting some ginger into an orifice burns so good!

So all these and more mixed up and combined with some tight bondage? Yes please!

I love being submissive to a woman. Dressing in sexy lingerie, forced to do things, having her wear a strap on, restraining me or just bending me over a fucking me.

Thank you for the replies so far. Here is the next question:

What is the appeal of cumplay to you, personally, as a giver (ejaculating on) or taker (being ejaculated on)?

In basic, when someone cum on me [face, boobs, ass], this is in my eyes some kind of "I show my dominance". i see that as pretty hot. Being covered in his sperm, he was not able to hold or decided to cum because I worked on him that good, it shows me, I did a great job.